Maybe it wasn't meant to be
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
There is this girl i really like and have had a huge crush on her for a long time, she got another boyfriend and their relationship ended, she knows that i really like her and i tell her how much she means to me and that i really enjoy spending time with her, but when it comes to asking her out, she doesnt want to because she just wants to stay friends, she tells me how nice i am and everything else and i have liked her for over a year and she just doesnt seem interested. now she will hardly even give me a hug but she still thinks i am her good friend.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Sometimes you have to get in where you fit in...and if you fit in that "friend" slot....Then that's where you should be. Don't keep pushing because then you just might push her away and not have her in your life at all.
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