He Lied and Cheated - I Still Want Him
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
Ok, here's my dilemma. There's this guy I really like. He took the time to get to know me despite the fact I had a boyfriend at the time... one thing led to another and i cheated on my boyfriend with him.
I broke up with my boyfriend only to find out that he has a girlfriend of 5 years! I would just end our "relationship" there, but our chemistry is unbelievable. He said so himself! We continue to be together behind his girlfriend's back... should i continue this in hope he will fall for me and break up with his girlfriend? i'm not sure how to approach him about the situation without sounding like a pathetic fool! any advice you give would help a lot!
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Doesn't sound to me like there's a lot of love going on here but just a lot of physical 'chemistry'and cheating.
If you continue this in the hope that he will fall for you and break up with his girlfriend, he might just do it and you'll have won yourself a cheater - who will very likely cheat on you too once a new 'unbelievable chemistry' comes his way.
If you think the 'bed chemistry' is worth the pain you'll cause yourself, then by all means stay but be prepared for it.
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