Justifiable jealousy

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My bf of four months found a room for rent but the catch is it's with a female roommate. He asked me what I thought and I really didn't know what to say I honestly thought he wouldn't like the place, he is so excited about moving he hasn't got the place yet but it's very likely and I don't want to crush him by telling him I don't like the idea. I sent him an email earlier telling him that I was a bit jealous because I was afraid my apartment would be just as lonely as my bed (we don't live together) but I thought he would spend more nights at my place. I think I'm jealous that she will be living with him and not me, not of anything happening. How should i approach this?

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Thanks for advice

As it turns out he did get the room and I told him that if that is what makes him happy than all I can do is support him. I would love to live together with him but only four months and we said nothing serious. So who knows what will happen though I don't think anything good. Thanks for your advice.

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