In Love with a Much Older Man
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I met that man on the internet and we have talked over a year ... he said he was 42 and we fell deeply in love. Than he admitted he was 70 years old and i became desperate as we were going to meet. I was mad and didn't chat with him for a while then i realized i love him and can't leave him. So we continue chatting but i am afraid to tell anyone about that relationship.
I am 35 years old and I am desperate, I know there is a risk to meet and get married, especially have children. I don't know what to do ... when i decide to leave i am always coming back ... like i am possesed. He has a strong personality and i am lonely right now and don't have a social life. I feel i am in trouble.
Can you help me?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
My Guy Lied Too
More than advice i want to share my story, i also met a man on the internet, he said he was 53 and i was 33, he is still married and has grown up kids, well we met in prson and we really love each other, we have been in love for over a year now, and we both live in different countries but we are in contact daily, we have seen each other half a dozen times in different cities, last time we were together i happen to see his driver's license and he is actually 63. Later on i gave him a chance to tell me the truth by asking if he had ever lied to me about anything, he said "no", i said" not even your age" after some proding he said he was 3 years older than he had said, i said i thought he was a bit older than that, finally he said he was 60, he does't know i know his real age, which is fine to me, i just dont know why the lie, maybe he thinks i will think he is far too old.
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