How can I convince her that she is acting spoiled
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
My girlfriend has been acting spoiled recently. She asks me to perform every small chore for her when I stop by her house. "Can you warm up this water for me?" "Can you get my scissors?" "Can you put that tape in?" She says this when she is perfectly able to get it herself. Normally, I don't mind, but she is very ungrateful when I do it. I never get a "Thank you." The kicker was when she was watching TV, and asked me to go out and get pizza for her. I went out, and 10 minutes later I bought pizza for her. The first thing out of her mouth was, "What took you so long?" I am very angry. Whenever I stick up for myself, and tell her that I'm not her slave, she always responds with this: "I'm your girlfriend. You're supposed to do these things for me. Any other normal guy would."
How can I convince her that she is acting spoiled, without looking like the bad guy?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
My advice is simple.Quit doing everything for her!!!!You're her boyfriend,not her slave!She needs to learn that she isn't a queen and that tromping on the peasants is long over.I HATE it when some women have an attitude that their husbands or boyfriends are supposed to wait on them hand and foot.I have very little respect for men who are pussy-whipped(and women who are dick-whipped!!).To me,that's a lack of backbone and(balls!).It sounds like she has very little respect for you and your feelings.In turn,that's going to make you lose respect for her.
The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer