i really like someone and i mean a lot!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Okay, well i am having a problem here becasue i really like someone and i mean a lot! but i am not sure if he likes me! i need to know. Should i tell him i like him or wait till i find out who he likes. but i want to tell him so badly but i don't know if i should tell him, or what to say.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Just Tell Him
hey , im in the same boat as you.ive been thru that a million times, but my advice to you is : be patient, be calm, dont make him think that ur desperate.. be cool, and be urself..like me for instance, i love my best friend E, i loved him for 4 years, and he doesnt know that, but he knows that i care, but be his friend first, take a deep breath,count to 10, if you really wanna tell him, then like i said, breathe, call him or go visit him,(FACE TO FACE IS ALOT BETTER) BUT if you cant see him then call him, say (name), i wanna tell u something, (wait for a response), then thats when you say."i know this may sound weird to you, but i really like you, i dont know if you feel the same way (be calm) i just wanted to say that i care about you, and (if he doesnt say anything, dont freak) just keep telling how you feel. tell him what you like about him. etc..
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