about a month ago, i started catching her in lies
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
my girlfriend and i have been dating for five years now. we're 25. and about a month ago, i started catching her in lies. she said she was in one place, but when i said i would meet her there, she said i couldn't because she wasn't really there and that where she was i couldn't go. then just two day later, i wanted to meet up with her at her work for a drink, but she said no again, when she left, she said she had to take one of her g/friends home. turns out it wasn't her g/friend it was a guy, that worked with her. i was pissed, because i was in the parking lot watching it as it happened. and now about a month later she says they are just friends, and i'm crazy. just this past friday we were going to hang out, but i said not tonight because of work in the morning, and i caught her leaving a ber with this same guy!!! claiming still that they are just good friends. but she never introduced me with him and talks about how they get along really well. what's the deal? is she worth fighting over or should i call it quits? and she does say she loves me and wants to be with me/ marry me. i told her it's over but she keeps calling me telling me it's not like that. do you think theres anything between them? and she's drinking all the time with him and her friends, me not being around. Thank you, please help.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
no way jose. If she really loves you and found this really cool guyfriend that is totally fun to hang out with she would want to share him with you. Have you hung out with her and her gf's, then why would a guy'f be any different.
sorry truth hurts. But, I used to do the same things to guys. You have all the classic signs there.
*lots of hot fishies in the sea*
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