We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi i am 15 yrs old i'm in love with my boyfriend. we have known each other for a while and we are happy but there is a problem. i used to be kind of unfaithful wit him in the past & hetrusted me.we broke up,but now were back together and were happy and stuff but he doesnt trust me anymore and i love him with all my heart. he doesnt kno how much i want him to trust me but its a big deal to me. my question is how do i make my boyfriend kno he can trust me before its too late? i feel so happy and i kno this is definately love and this is definately the person i want to spend the rest of my life with.help!
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Talk to Him
i'm in the same position, cept i opposite sexes...i'm 17 and was unfaithful once, lied a few times, and never really showed any outward signs of the love i have for her.
it didnt help that my gf was insecure, but that should have made me even more careful. anyway, time is the best healer, talk with him and give him reason to trust you, ask him what he doesnt like about you, and change them...make him feel like you do love him and want him
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