We're Engaged - We Fight Constantly
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
My boyfriend and I have been going out for about 8 months now, I am pregnant and we are engaged to be married, except we fight constantly. I'm not sure that I really want to be with him but I feel sort of obligated to marrying him. It also feels like he doesn't really want to be around me a lot of times.
I dont know how to handle this and make it a happier relationship..what should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Female
Be Sure Before you Leave
Well pregnancy plus getting ready to get married is a very stressful time. People can't really trust their emotions all the time. Sometimes I hate my boyfriend and we fight like hell & other times I love him and "feel" like I can't live without him. That is unfortunately normal to have all these ups and downs. They are the ones closest to you. So be sure that you don't love him before you leave. Emotions are a touchy thing to go by.
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