Talking to my Crush
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
I really have a desparate crush on this girl whos in my school, two years younger than me, . The only problem is when I was trying to get close to her by talking to her freinds on Im and such and sometimes in school. I havn't actually exanged more than a few words in conversation with the girl I actually like but I think she's not really talking to cos she thinks i like her freinds. It's still just a suspicion though, im not sure wether it's that or she's just not interested.
I havn't got her IM address yet, but I have told her friends that I like her and they have kinda refused to give an opinoin. Does this mean there keeping a promised secret for their freind, not to tell me that she liked me or are they all silently thinking 'oh my, he doesn't stand a chance with her, better not hurt his feelings though'
I just don't know what to think or do, please help me :(
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Tell the Girl
Tell the girl you like her. Don't talk to her friends for a while until she knows you like her. Don't ask her friends for opinions cause they just lie.
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