Choosing between Two Guys
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi. Im a girl in high school and i love 2 guys. Ive been through pain, and hurt, and ive been through love. I know what it feels like to be treated like a princess, and treated like a beggar. i know that i am in love, the problem is it is with two guys. my feelings for them are so strong. one i never can see because he is constantly in different places, the other is at my school but he is always working. one loves me in return, we feel the same way for each other, but he roams from place to place that i never can see him. and they other just calls me from time to time, but he was in an arts class with me and i sat with him and i fell in love.
i do not know what to do. here are two great men, whom i both love, and the reality of it is that i may only choose one. and its so hard, because i will get my heart broken either way, or i could be making the wrong decision and lose the greatest guy ever. now i know that there are millions of other guys out there, but i live everyday as if it were my last. if i dont seize the moment, then i will never know if i will love again. please help me in my decision. i dont want to screw up. thank you
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
How To Decide?
Its so good to hear that there are other people are in the same situation as I am in now. I too, have fallen for two different guys, both of which are completely different, but both which provide with me with something different. The "Pacey" of the two, is the cheeky, funny, sweet, yet exciting type. The "Dawson" is the the reliable, trustworthy, always there for you, and dependable type. Both really care about me, and both provide me with different things that I need and want.
I too feel like I am betraying both of them, by seeing them both at the same time. But I simply cannot decide between the two, I know I must, but I don't want to lose the one I don't choose/risk being hurt by choosing the wrong one. How can you decide? How do you decide?
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