He Has a Girlfriend - He Spends Time with Me

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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
im falling for this guy...the problem is he has a girlfriend. he always compliments me, and we talk all the time.he comes over and we just watch movies and talk. but then we started messing around.

i just cant understand- if he loves her, why does he spend all of his time with me? he hasnt seen her in weeks. i dont know what to do, and i cant talk to him to ask him whats going on. please help!

User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
You Deserve Better

As painful as it may be - you deserve better than a guy who can only give you some of his time and attention.
He keeps spending time with you - most likely because of the rush and thrill he gets from cheating on his girlfriend with you! You do not want this boy - even if he becomes single in the future, because there is always a risk that, "once a cheater, always a cheater". Be careful and don't let this get much deeper or you will hurt yourself much more than expected. Good luck - you're better than him!

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