Where are we in our relationship?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
---she 14|me 13|both in 8th grade---
I have a list of things that have been happening lately can you tell me where we are in our relatonship
-We got our school pictures backs and i asked for one
she said okay. I said "mine's horrible" and she said "No it looks nice" (and i know it looked horrible because even my parents laughed at it :)
so does that mean anything
-Also when we hug each other lately shes been the first to do it
-I want to start kissing but when i asked her she said "wait a little while" i still feel stupid about asking and i don't want to put her under more pressure and ask again. And if i kiss her on the cheek or forehead i feel i'm violating her wishes. And i want my first kiss to be where we kiss each other not just me kissing her.
-When i asked her if we are friends or boyfriend/girlfriend it was like pulling teeth to get an answer from her, and i don't think she was going to answer. But eventually she said "we are friends (my name)" and that could be a real answer but could it be she was to embarassed to say anything else.
She said she wasen't boy crazy(on a diferent day, not in relation to what i just wrote) does that mean i won't have a chance on being anything more than friends
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
It Comes Naturally
U no need to ask her. It comes very naturally on 1 date.
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