I'm Obsessed with Looks
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
I am in a relashionship that is now quite serious...only one problem I feel jealous all the time. In the beginning I wasnt but I found out in the first 2 weeks that even though he had told me he had broken contact with other women online (thats how we met)he hadnt. I felt very betrayed.
Since then he actually made a comment about a famous star and how nice her body is. I am not a thin girl, not fat but definately have curves. When I am not in a relashionship I think I am very attractive, but once involved with someone and they let me know how attractive someone is that I could never look like without 1000$ in surgery how do I feel attractive?
Why are men with normal women? If a guys ideal woman is one on tv then why be with me? This just leads me to believe that odviously this woman could have my boyfriend at a moments notice and really is much more desirable than me to hmmm every man alive. The point to my question is that what is the point to being in a relashionship when obviously he thinks woman on tv and in magazines are far superior looking to me?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Guys Need Blinders
Ok, Girl I feel the same way. Why is it that thoes women get the attention that we (the g/f) should get. Her b/f should admire her not other women. Why is it fair that we are good enough for them to date but not good enought to look at. It's assnine to say that all men do it and us women should just sit around and be ok with it. We see our guys look at other women with looks they don't even give us. It sucks, men who do this suck...its rude and unconsideret of them. They don't care one bit about our feelings as long as they get to look at other chicks. I feel that the internet is becaming the worse invention in the world because it has went from being used to look up info to a took for men to use to see naked chicks for free....like I said, if a guy wants to be with me, he needs to be with me....and only me. I don't want to feel that I have to compare myself to another girl. The feeling sucks.
[RomanceClass says - can you honestly say you've never watched a movie, or a TV show, and been interested in the male hero?]
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