Big time jealousy problem
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girlfriend and I have known each other for 5 years and started dating 4 months ago, we got engaged in late december, she loves me, and I know this, and I love her more than words can express. We only get to see each other once a month, lately she's been acting different, see says it's because of the stress of school and because she's been tired, BUT, she is "friends" with some guy, she is with him every day after school and on the phone with him, she is always talking about him and is going camping with him to ride quads with his family this weekend. I'm really getting suspicious, I lay in bed for about 6 hours every night beating my head in wondering if she's cheating on me. I'm terrified that she is because I'll flip out and dismember the guy, what do you think could be going on? I need some help,answers, anything. I can't handle the thought of her with another guy without having a panic attack and wanting to amputate my penis and send it to a priest. Please get back to me asap. Thanks
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
You Need to Slow Down
wowowowow- amputate your penis and send it to a priest?!?!?!
boy you seriously need to slow down with that. i would be totally suspicious if i were you, but the issue ison her, not on you so dont take it out like that ..
just for you to even say that indicates you may be gonig way too head over heals for her.. you might have known her for 5 years, and have gone out with her for 4 mnoths, but do you really think that is enough time for you to know youcan be together forever? if you cant trust her now, then how do you expect to be able to spend your life with her..?
you need to talk to her about it.. and i really dont think thats enough time ...
The Original Question and RomanceClass Answer