Choosing between Two Guys
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi. Im a girl in high school and i love 2 guys. Ive been through pain, and hurt, and ive been through love. I know what it feels like to be treated like a princess, and treated like a beggar. i know that i am in love, the problem is it is with two guys. my feelings for them are so strong. one i never can see because he is constantly in different places, the other is at my school but he is always working. one loves me in return, we feel the same way for each other, but he roams from place to place that i never can see him. and they other just calls me from time to time, but he was in an arts class with me and i sat with him and i fell in love.
i do not know what to do. here are two great men, whom i both love, and the reality of it is that i may only choose one. and its so hard, because i will get my heart broken either way, or i could be making the wrong decision and lose the greatest guy ever. now i know that there are millions of other guys out there, but i live everyday as if it were my last. if i dont seize the moment, then i will never know if i will love again. please help me in my decision. i dont want to screw up. thank you
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I'm Unfair to Both
I dont really know what to say on this either whereas im currently going through the same situation. Two of the most sweetest guys i've ever met i am both in love with and they love me too. one of them i have known for almost 6 years but we have lost contact for about 5 of them and recently started talking again and guess what? WE ARE STILL IN LOVE!! but... the thing is before i started talking to him again i met this other and we have connected in so many ways and almost instantly i fell in love with him. so now i got these two amazing guys wanting to be with me and i am completely split down the middle on who to choose. i hate lying to them and i hate feeling like im being unfair and unfaithful to them. i know i have to choose but i dont know how. im afraid of breaking a heart and possibly losing the one i was meant to be with.
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