We Argued - He Left. I Want him Back
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
we are 1 year and 8 mos. we sometimes fight of little things and he gets tired of it. i gave him space because he wants it. now, he asked me what will i do if he decided we will just be friends. my heart breaked and my hopes in my expectations just sank after hearing what he said. it will be hard for me to be his friend after all the memories, that's why i said that i don't want to be his friend anymore if we will be apart 'coz it will be hard for me to accept that we're through.
i love him more than my self. i don't want to let him go... what should i do???
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I wish I knew what to tell you. I'm in the exact same position. My ex told me that if I could show him "drastic" changes, then maybe we could give it another try. However, I feel that the changes our relationship needs are going to be slow and need patience and time from us both. If he seems receptive, you could try to hang out with him as friends and show him that things could be different. If things go well between the two of you, he will begin to see that he misses you and how great things could be with the two of you.
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