Help, I don't have a girlfriend!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
im afraid of never having a girlfriend. im in highschool and u may be thinking "ur still very young". however, many people i know have done it all and i havent even really been hugged or kissed before. i think it might be too late, because if i actually get a girlfriend, what will i do? ill be totally clueless about kissing and etc. do u have any advice?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
Well, you know what? I, too, am afraid of never having a girlfriend and I am ALREADY 17 years old and a junior! However, I can give you some advice that MIGHT help, not definitely.
Whatever you do, don't act like you NEED to have a girlfriend. Trust me, you do NOT want girls to think you are that desperate. Instead, focus on being HAPPY with what you are. If girls see you as happy with what you are, you are bound to be a "girl magnet!"
Don't be shy! Be brave, take a deep breath, and GET OUT THERE! You'll be glad you did! To start, smile and say hi to girls you are interested in. Do NOT worry about how she will react. Be brave and JUST DO IT!
I wish you the absolute best of luck!
You will do fine, trust me!
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