She's sending me mixed messages, what do I do?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
This girl i like is sending so many mixed messages and so i'm not sure wat to think. One day i think she likes me the other she could care less about me. Now i'm starting to wonder whether or not i want to like her. But i know that love is something that just happens. What if i don't want to like her but i can't help it? What should i do?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
Don't give up yet! Just because she's giving mixed messages. I would say she likes you but she's going by your body language as well. She may feel the same way about you as you do her. Give her a chance by going up to her and making the first move. You won't be sorry if your wrong, you will be much more at ease about it and much of a man making the move. Go on and make the move, you have nothing to lose except maybe some of your dignity and that can be mended quickly. Give it a try. PS: I'm having the same problem with someone I like and he's giving me mixed messages as well. I'm old fashion, If he likes me he will make the move. I gave him the sign I'm interested now the ball is in his court.......:)
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