Me and my girlfriend are on a break becuase I'm to paraniod
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
Me and my girlfriend are on a break becuase im to paraniod and over protected. The only reason why was becuase i thought she was cheating on me with this guy who she tells me hes like a brother to her. When i ask her if there is going on she tells me that she loves me to much to do that and that she couldnt do that to me. The guy who i talked to before told me that hes not that kind of person. Well since we r on break she told me that she still loves me and yes we r still together (as is still going out). That kid tells me to stay postive and that she loves me and if i need any help talk to him. I just need advice on what i should think. My main concern if she is cheating on me with that guy. from what i've been hearing from the both of them it seems like nothing is going on u never know so can some one plz help me!!! p.s we been going out for 9 months
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
jealous and insecurity are a sign of weakness, a sign of no self worth. you ARE a person who is special. you do have things that are valuable. be strong and she will see that you are worth fighting for and worth sacrificing things for. If you do not see yourself as valuable, neither will she. relax and let your natural positivness shine. it will be worth it. if you love someone, set her free and relax...shwe will be there.
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