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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I could sit here and tell you about all these different things that have got me thinking, but ill just go over the main things i think are important.
Ive really liked this girl since i met her a few months ago, but didnt really know her, until her and one of my mates played a joke on m where they pretended to be a girl and said stuff like, i really like you.....and all the rest of it. It got dragged out longer then they wanted it to, but it turned out it was her ising her phone doing this joke. This was the first thing that got me thining because a few of my mates said, maybe she actually fancies you! but i didnt believe them and forgot about it. Ever since then shes sort of made the effort to get to know me like gettin my mate to add me into an msn conversation when she didnt have my address, and ever since, almost every time im on she says hi or wateva and talks to me.
The other day i was talkin to her on msn and at the end of it she had to go, so we said cya, and then she said kisses????????? which just again got me thinking. Shes never done it before, is she just messin?
Ive looked at your advice on flirting and ive noticed shes done quite alot from the list. Just yesterday she came over to my comoputer to show me something and put her hand on my hand to use the mouse, even after i took my hand away to type, when i put my hand back, she put her hand back ontop of mine but put her fingers between mine like she was holding my hand. she punches me or stands on my foot or wateva, and when i say, what was that for or ouch, she hugs me and laughs.This is too long so im just gunna skim though it.
I said soemthing to her and she told em to hug her. She leans on my shoulders or head when shes standing or sitting behind me. and i looked at her right in the eyes yesterday to see what shed do, and she just kept starring back at me for at least 5 seconds. Theres loads more, but wat gets me the most was, i sat opposite her with my head on the table trying to get a reception on my phone, and she just came out and said xx, i love you!! i didnt know wat to say and thought she was jking. But later that day she said she wrote soemthing on my computer, so i went over there and read it and it said, i love you xx!!!!
Now i know shes flirting, but shes a pretty flirty girl and that is wat confuses me, shell lean on other boys and hug them and the rest of it. But its been driving me mad weather or not shes just flirting like the rest of them or if shes serious. One other thing was she sent me a questionnaire, one of the questions was, have you ever had a crush on me? her answer - im not saying, lmao.
She confuses me because she seems to want to end a text conversation quickly and sometimes she doesnt seem very enthusiastic on msn.
Im sorry its abit long, but im hoping more info, will help.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
She likes you.
Go for it.
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