Paranoid about a girl
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
I've liked this girl for the last 3 years. We've talked before and we get along well, but we don't talk a lot. I think she might like me, but I can't tell if she's giving me signals or if I'm being paranoid. It doesn't help that I'm usually a quiet kid either. She's currently going out with someone. My problem is I've heard sometimes people will go out with someone just to make the person they really like jealous. How do I know if she really likes him? I think they used to go out before now, so they could easily be faking it, or that could be me being paranoid again...
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Are you sure that she's going out with him, and they're not friends?
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