She doesn't like kissing
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Male
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Question: I've been dating a 30-year-old woman (I'm a 24/M) for seven months and she and I have become serious about our relationship, but she doesn't like to kiss me. I find this odd, because she's kissed guys before she met me (guys she's dated and even a guy she met at a bar one night).
She says kissing makes her feel claustrophobic, but she kissed me a lot when we first began dating. Now she never French kisses me, and her kisses are halfhearted, like she doesn't even want to kiss me. It's as if she kisses me just to keep me happy.
I've kissed dozens of women before her, and I never had anything but compliments, so I know my current problem isn't because of how I kiss.
Is there anything I can do? What's her deal?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm a 25 yr old woman. I was looking up the subject online because I have encountered a few men with the same issue. Like in your situation, it wasn't until things started to get more intimate did they clam up on the kissing. Don't listen to what this guy has to say. You deserve to be with someone who isn't going to play games with you. She, like the guys I dated obviously has no problem with kissing itself. She can't deal with how she feels about you for whatever reason and is equating kissing with control. Loose her. that sucks.
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