How to develop a relationship
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
i'm 15 and i really like this gurl. we are pretty good friends right now, and we could become a lot better friends; at the same time though i think we could start going out. i'm not sure if she likes me enough to start dating... should i be "brave" and ask her out? or should i go on a date with her first and see how she feels about us? i dont really want to ask her "will you go out with me", because if she says no it will probably ruin our relationship
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
dude if you like her aske her out but if she says no and only likes you as her friend then your friendship is going to be weriod and not going to be the same. If you decide to aske her out don't say " will you go out with me" that's lame. Aks her " (Name) do you want to be my girlfriend? because if you aske her the other way it sounds like oh where do you want to go to the movies to the mall. Anywaz you have to think about it both ways. I hope it works out for you. Best wishes.
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