Jealous of the ex
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I have a great boyfriend. Un the past I had found out that he was hanging out with his ex girlfriend. He lied to me about were he was at that time, but I caught him in that lie. We both had talked and decided to drop it. We now have plans to get married, but i still find my self bringing up stuff from the past that involes the ex. The reason for that is she goes to his moms all the time. How can i stop wondering if them two are talking or messing around. How can i forget this all happened because I want to be happy and get married, but the ex is making me misable
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
you should sit the ex down and ask her if she has any feelings toward him anymore. Whatever she says just tell her that you love your husband to be and you two are meant to be. And that you two should become friends and maybe she will stop hanging around his moms and maybe she will spend more time with you. Even though she is at his moms house, you know were she is. ANd if you know were he is, its all good.
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