My Boyfriend is Ashamed of Me
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
My boyfriend barely ever calls me and we've been going out for 3 months and he has only called me four times. he flirts with my friends and has told me once that he gets emmbarrased with me. I love him so much but have no clue what to do. Can you help me?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
You need to ask him what about yourself that embarasses him.Is your weight?Hairstyle?Level of education? Then ask him WHY is he ashamed to be around you.You must have some qualities that he likes or the two of you wouldn't be dating in the first place. Also,ask him why he needs to flirt in front of you.Would he like it if you did the same to him?I doubt it!If he is ashamed to be around you because of weight,height,color of skin,etc,then HE has the problem.You need a man who loves you just as you are and not for physical appearances alone.
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