What Is He Thinking? Is He Avoiding Me or Liking Me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Last year I really liked this guy when I was in grade 8. I wrote him love notes but didn't sign them (because I'm very shy). Later he found out I wrote them and started avoiding me, so we only talked now and then. (but we've known eachother for almost forever)
Now I'm in grade 9 and still I like him. And still he seems like he's avoiding me. Some of my friends say maybe it's because he likes me, but I think it's because he doesn't.
Please Please Please help me. And thanx in advance for any advice.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
Try to be his friend first and see if he'll talk to you like a normal friend would do.Spice up your conversations a little bit.Once you're friends and start to get close,he'll stop avoiding you.You don't want to make him feel like you are a"monster" but someone he can feel comfortable to talk to.You don't want him to walk or run away from you.
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