he says he only likes me as a friend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
I have been in love with this boy that I thought was love at first sight, but he says he only likes me as a friend and it makes me mad to see him with a girlfriend. He also likes my very close cousin. I think it's because I'm fat. What should I do when I love him so much but he do not like me.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
I am older and in the same situation. This man is a VERY close friend. I have determined that I want to be friends with him FOREVER, and as such I will stay in his life and see if his feelings ever change for me. In the meantime, I will still live my life and look for my true love, in case it is NOT him. He loves me as a friend; is it possible, then, that he could love me romantically? Only time will tell!
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