Fighting with bipolar boyfriend
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hello its me ariell again, i just want to talk to you about this because your last advice worked lol well...you see me and him fight alot,i know hes bipolar his personality changes all the time.I want this relationship to work but when hes in his bipolar moment i get so mad at him we just fight and then we break up but i love this guy alot and i want it to work out ...also how should my love to him??? please help me you help alot befor and thanks so much.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
i think you should talk to him tell him you really want to work things out.but dont bring up his bipolar issue. just say you love him alot and you hate fighting.and you could help out by taking yourself out of the fight by going into a diffrent room or just holding your breath while he says what he has to say untill he calms down then express your feelings to him. try not to yell its not his fault hes bipolar.hope everything works out good for you.
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