Still wants a hug
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Male
Alright i'm sorry i keep bothering you guys but i'm just worried because this is my first "relationship" and i don't want to screw things up, so what your saying is if she accepts hugging she will except cheek kissing? she said we were only friends but acted like it was somewhere in between love and friendship. do friends kiss? And one more thing i asked her for a hug and (i think) she gave half of a nervous smile and didn't answer was that because she was nervous, embarassed, or uncomfortable w/ the subject. but she talked to me after that so i didn't scare her off.
Thanks a LOT
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I had the same problem. A guy friend who I liked wanted to hug me and I kind of hesitated for some stupid reason. You see, I was having a bad day and all, so the the nice guy of who he is decided to give me a hug to cheer me up. I'm kind of shy and sort of not the sympahtic type,(even though I like a good hug here and then). My advise is don't think she doesn't like you or that your wierd or anything. She might not be used to this kind of affection from a guy or was just not planning for it.Keep working on your relationship with her.She might just feel more and more comfortable around you.
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