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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Alright...I have a pretty bad jealousy problem...my partner is a great girlfriend she treats me great...and we have the perfect relationship...except one thing...i get jealous ALL the time...she doesnt have to do much to make me jealous...she can talk about another guy or just talk about how good he is or just something like that...or when other guys make her laugh...now i trust her...thats the weird thing...i dont know what to do...i trust her that she loves me like she says she does and she wants to be with only me like she says she does but i still get jealous EASILY and i think the slightest things could b flirting...and i know shes gonna flirt because its human nature...its just when i hear about her flirting or if i see her doing it...i get really jealous...and i dont know what to do...iv tried everything...iv been to many websites...ill think about the situation for alone time...ill tell myself she loves me and only me...but it doesnt help...i dont know what to do...and i want to be with her forever...and i dont want this to ruin our relationship...because shes the greatest girl alive and i cant live without her...please help...im
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I completely understand where you are coming from! I am in the same situation except its my boyfriend I am constantly getting jealous of! I havent found a way to stop this but all I can say is persevre and if your love is true it will get worked out eventually! Im still hoping to get there though! Good luck!
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