Husband and sister in law
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Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
We went to my brothers house for a BBQ the other night and my husband likes to flirt with my sister'n'law. I was sitting next to my husband and my sister'n'law was standing next to him and the next thing he grabs her and sits her on his knee and was hugging her, meantime I'm still sitting there but a minute after it happens I take off inside.Later on, he puts his arm around her and cuddles her and she saids "At least, we're not doing it behind your back." For the rest of the night he hangs around her talking, if I go up and talk to him, he just shrugs me off and it doesnt help when hes been drinking. This is not the first time that it has happened, it has happened quite a lot and it makes me feel uncomfortable. We dont see my brother and his family very much,they live a fair way away. I havnt said anything to my husband or my sister'n'law because I dont want to start a arguement and I get on good with my sister'n'law. What should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 51-60 year old Female
Don't put up with it
Tell your husband if his behavior does not change, he better pack his clothes and get out. Do not put up with that abuse, let them both know and if they do not stop walk out. Do not put up with this lack of respect. Kick your sister in law out of your home. If they do not care about you why should you be tolerant of this immoral disgusting behavior. Get rid of both of them and in no uncertain terms with a loud voice kick them the hell out of your home.
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