cheated on twice but still love her
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
My girl and i have been together for about a year and a half now. near october she told me that she had cheated on me over the summer. we worked past it, because i love her and think that she feels the same way. Now in january she admits to have cheated on me again, with the same person. I love her to death and she says she feels the same way, but im finding it difficult to trust her. i want to be with her, and she says she feels the same way. We have agreed that she needs to stop talking to the guy she cheated with, but the guy has long been her freind for years, and is freinds with all of her freinds, and is finding it difficult to sever him from her life. i want to be with her, what can i do?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
Love yourself more
If you are choosing to forgive her this means you have decided to get past it and rebuild your trust with her. I understand you love her but you need to love yourself a lil more then you love her. You should break up with her, its really not worth the pain and constant thoughts of her cheating again. There are other women out there that will love you the RIGHT way and wont cheat on you, and you deserve that. Just move on i know it will hurt but when one door closes another one opens.
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