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I'm a 23yr old guy, she's 21. I have been with my girlfriend for 4 years and a half now. We were both deeply in love. She had a very obsessive jealousy issue and took two years to fix but we managed. We used to have sex 3 to 4 times a week, sometimes even twice a day...now it has gone down to once or twice a month maybe. Everytime she expressed her feelings she always was afraid that i was gonna leave her and how she wants to me my future wife etc. All of a sudden she says that she needs to talk to me about something very serious. We sat down talking and she says "i'm not sexually attracted to you anymore, i care a lot about you but i don't want to have sex with you or kiss you" and tells me we should take a break. We now are in a 4 month break and will retry our relationship in 4 months. What should i do ? i love her to death and probably couldn't bare it if she does break it off completely. I have gained a bit of weight like 10 kilos (i'm now at 75kilos) maybe that put her off somehow. Can she ever become what she used to be before ? i.e. sexually attracted to me etc ?




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