what did i do wrong?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
im so confused, please help. i was dating this guy, and we really liked each other. we got along so well! after 3 dates(where he never held the door open) he started saying he wanted to just be friends. he has never had a girlfriend or kissed a girl, and said he was scared. i agreed to be friends. he said we'd continue dating in a bit when he wasnt so busy and i said i was fine with that, and he said not much would change. he started ignoring me and barely talking, and i asked what was up! he said he didnt want to date again. ever. i dont know what i did wrong but he said'it didnt feel right'. now he's flirting with my friend. please help. i dont know what to do and i miss him
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Male
I think that he just cant go any farther than talking, maybe flirting and telling girls he likes them, his problem is no game, he doesnt know your supposed to hold the door open for a lady, he might just not know, and like you said hes scared, i know because i kinda am like that and definetly was like that but i got over it,got brave and learned, you just need to tell him youl teach him or something, thats what one of my girlfriends told me, but thats after i asked her.
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