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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Male
Alright, I took this girl that I've known and liked for about 4 years out dancing. We aren't officially dating, but we like to go to places together. We went to a class and then a dance party afterwards. She seemed to be having a good time and enjoying herself. However, at one time or another, she told me that I could probably pick up some chicks at the dance place. There was nobody my age there so I wasn't flirting with anyone (not that I would with the awesome girl I was with). Is she hinting that she doesn't care for me? She means a lot to me and I don't want to waste my time on this one girl.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I disagree with this whole-heartedly! She's just seeing if you are interested in her. Obviously, she wanted to see if you would be interested in someone else.
If this happends again, a good "I think I'll pass" will do.
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