I Know He's Cheating
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
im 20 yrs old guy im with is 30, we was together for over a year. when i met my boyfriend he was everything i wanted in a man and my family loves him. we seem like the perfect couple until one day i found very personal texts in his phone from a woman/women. so i confronted him he said it was very old messages. i forgave him.
months later i read messages on his wall on facebook seeming both flirting with each other. i forgave him for some reason. after a while i regained my trust but he also became distant since i moved and live further. i havent seen him for awhile since his birthday which by the way he forgot mine when it's in the same month).
he's started working several jobs and we spend little to no time anymore. my family still thinks our relationship is perfect and they still love him cause that's the only side they see.
recently i decided to keep my distance from him till i make up my mind should i stay or go. we've haven't talk in almost a month. i'm hurting cause i don't know should i reach out to him or move on.
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
girl I have the same problems. dont forgive him you will move on and find a better man that treats you right. I know it hurts but girl he dont deserve you
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