need advice!!!! help!!!!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Hi im having trouble alot of trouble with my boyfriend. we have been together for more than a year. in the whole year we have been together he has never asked about how many past kicks(people ive made out with) have i had until last nite.i answered back pretty rudely saying why should it matter. hes hurt now bc of the fact i didnt answer the quest and because he is worried dat he is in some sort of 'list'. im in love with him and im not sure if he sees that and how much ive changed in the sense that im not the girl that would cheat on him ever even though ive done it in the past before i knew him. and ive done everything i could do to have him see that im in love with him. how can i make it better please help=.(
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I've had the same problem except it was the other way around. My boyfriend was the one who got all defensive and rude about his ex and it hurt my feelings when he refused to discuss his relationship with her. Eventually I got the hint that he had bad experiences with her and didn't want to talk about them, so I backed off and he eventually explained things to me. So if your man is backing off a little bit, that's your chance to explain and be a considerate girlfriend. Trust me, you'll be glad you did.
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