Should I make the big move or just leave him alone?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am deeply in love with this one boy. he says he love me to. the problem is that he lives over 800 miles. when i graduate from stna courses i plan to move near him to continue my education in medical. I want to kno if i should do it. he says he loves me but when i call he always says he is busy and that he would call me back. he never calls me back when he say he will. he never texts me i have to text him first. he never does anything first. I have to call him, text him, and see him first. he does all this stuff but swears up and down that he loves me and wants me to be with him when i move down there. I really love him in all but I want to know should i move to be near him or just leave him alone?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
He Should Go First
- i think that you should not have to do anything first . and if he really loves you like he says then he should should start doing things first. Like txtinn yu and callin you . and if he dont then i feel that yiu should just leave him alone.
Because if he cant put you first for something then there could be someone else he is seeing since you lives so far away from him .
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