Should I make the big move or just leave him alone?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I am deeply in love with this one boy. he says he love me to. the problem is that he lives over 800 miles. when i graduate from stna courses i plan to move near him to continue my education in medical. I want to kno if i should do it. he says he loves me but when i call he always says he is busy and that he would call me back. he never calls me back when he say he will. he never texts me i have to text him first. he never does anything first. I have to call him, text him, and see him first. he does all this stuff but swears up and down that he loves me and wants me to be with him when i move down there. I really love him in all but I want to know should i move to be near him or just leave him alone?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
If he cared he would call
hi! am no one really but after reading whatever u wrote it seems to be quite my story... so i would like to advise u something girl.. i believe u when u said u really love that guy. i can understand because i am in the same situation as u. well, it is impossible to get over him or even to oppose something against him.. but dear u should take a good decision because whatever u will do now will change ur life completely. he says he loves u but R U SURE HE REALLY DO?? DO U TRUST HIM?? R U SURE HE IS NOT BETRAYING U ON UR BACK?? TRY TO FIND OUT SOME TRUTHS ABOUT HIM N UR RELATIONSHIP WITH HIM THEN TAKE A GOOD DECISION GIRL. REMEMBER, IF HE REALLY LOVES U AS HE SAID THOUGH BEING BUSY HE WOULD FIND TIME TO CALL U... BUT HE DIDN'T EVEN TXT U BACK.. THE DECISION IS UP TO U LADY! BEFORE GOING I WOULD LIKE TO TELL U SOMETHING, IF THAT GUY REALLY LOVES U, HE WILL ACCEPT IN ANY WAY U R AND WILL COME BACK TO U... TAKE CARE!
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