I am confused..and I am cheating!!!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 31-40 year old Female
I am into a relation with a guy since 3 years..met him in college.but I always had unexpressed love in my heart for my childhood schooltime sweetheart.I knew he also loved me..but we both were too young to feel responsible enough to express our love..so we could not make it happen...he went on with his life n had an affair with a girl in college..but ended with a breakup!!
now nearly after 5 years..he has expressed his love for me..n evn i luv him..!but my present boyfriend loves me so much that i am unable to tell him the truth..i cannot hurt my present boyfriend for he is such a caring guy and he wont be able to handle it..his life will be ruined!but it feels like i am cheating on him by not telling him whats in my heart.
i am unable to decide whether i love my childhood sweetheart more or whether i have care for my present boyfriend more..whom should i be with??
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Female
You never forget your first love
you said, You and your sweetie never expressed your love. I'm assuming you meant sex. And, I mean this in the most respectful way, maybe thats confusing your head with your heart. You never forget how your first love made you feel, with just a kiss. Now you know the intensity and passion that comes with being a woman.
And remember your current,BF, is going up against the most perfect relationship. "The first love"
Good luck honey, Margo
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