My jealousy is ruining our relationship
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. I was fine with him talking to girls and everything until shortly after a year of dating when I found out he had lied to me a number of times. They weren't big lies to him but to me they were ( he lied about going to his ex's party who still liked him at the time and I found out by seeing photos of them huggin in the bath with a few other girls, lied about talking to another ex when he went clubbing and lied about talking to loads of girls at a party all of which I saw photos and confronted him about). Since hes lied to me I can't seem to trust him and I get really jealous if he goes out or anything. I know he wouldnt cheat but I cant help but wonder if he was drunk he might be tempted and hes lied to me before so he could lie about it again. Please help cause it's destroying both me and the relationship. Thank you.
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Female
I been with my parenter for 11 years and we have three kids two of them are his and one is from my ex. I messed around in the past and he through it to my face that I did that and he doesnt trust me. I dont trust him because he talks to girls and he told me that he has slept with them because I did that in the past with him and he says that was the past for him too what can I do ? I havent talk to anyone or messed around on him I'm tired of him telling me about what I did years ago and he done this a while back please help me
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