Cheater or just me?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've been dating this guy for over half a year and it seems that since summer started we're been to "close" to each other. he use to be a big flirt and loved to party, but he stopped almost completely for me. a month ago he met a girl @ the arcade and they've been getting really close. he tries to assure me that nothing is going on but he was over @ her house and was relectant to tell me. they went to a party together and he keeps mentionning her. they hang out a lot. she has a bf tho but she's had many. is it just me or should i be worried? we've talked about breaking up a few times now but cudn't go through with it. recently it seems like he's getting tired of me. i'm not the girl he thot he wold date and he said before we settle as a long term relationship he wants to date other girls.. ..
so he tells me he needs his space and time to himself,and im going away for over a week. wha? we've talked about breaking up a few times now but cudn't go through with it. recently it seems like he's getting tired of me. i'm not the girl he thot he wold date and he said before we marry he wants to date other girls.. it's hard to last "forever"...t should i do?
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male
Both should Date
Ok, he wants to date other girls and so he will date other girls. So what are you going to do? You need to agree and start dating other guys also. Whats fair for him is fair for you. After a long time of dating others you may grown farther apart or it will make your relationship stronger and build more confidence that you meant to be together.
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