My jealousy is ruining our relationship
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
Ive been with my boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years. I was fine with him talking to girls and everything until shortly after a year of dating when I found out he had lied to me a number of times. They weren't big lies to him but to me they were ( he lied about going to his ex's party who still liked him at the time and I found out by seeing photos of them huggin in the bath with a few other girls, lied about talking to another ex when he went clubbing and lied about talking to loads of girls at a party all of which I saw photos and confronted him about). Since hes lied to me I can't seem to trust him and I get really jealous if he goes out or anything. I know he wouldnt cheat but I cant help but wonder if he was drunk he might be tempted and hes lied to me before so he could lie about it again. Please help cause it's destroying both me and the relationship. Thank you.
User Submitted Advice from a 41-50 year old Male
hes a liar
George has some good advice. Bottom line is, hes a liar. That is now the biggest of the two issues. So you need to get back the trust so you can work out the other issue and enjoy the relationship. No trust , no relationship.
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