Am I Still a Virgin?
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Hi I am a teen under the age of 18, and i have two questions to ask regarding sex. Well for my first question i want to know if i am still a virgin. About a week ago i was at my boyfrien's house, and well we started to do all the typical common things that b/f and g/f do (hugh, kiss, smooch ect)but it started to go a little too far where it got to the point where my panties were off, so he started fingering me, and before i knew it, his penis was inside of me. I didnt want to tell him to stop because i didnt want to make him feel bad, but after about 10 minutes i told him to stop because i didnt really feel comfortable. Now everscince that day my question is, am i stil a virgin? It might seem like a stupid question to ask after what i just explained, but the thing is that i didnt bleed, therefore I assume that my cherry didnt pop, and i believe that if your cherry dosent pop then you are stil a virgin. Another thing is that i didnt really feel much pain at all, so i think that the penis didnt go all the way through. Well as for my first question that's about it.
My second question, how is a guy able to notice if the girl he is having sex with, is a virgin or not?
Well that is about it for my questions, thank you for taking the time to read.
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Answer to your first question is, you are not a virgin since you had intercourse. At least based on the common definition of "virgin". Everyone's different and not having any blood does not mean anything. For many women, "cherry" is already popped w/o sex or it doesn't bleed at all. As for a guy knowing if the girl is a virgin, that's a no as well. At least not by physical feeling.
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