This is so wrong, but it feels so right
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I've recently broken up with my boyfriend and am quite happy to be out of the relationship.
So, I've known this other guy for about 4yrs now. Let's say his name is Ryan and he'll be 18 this year (by the way, I'm 16). I talked to him a lot when I was with my ex and he comforted me all the time.
But now when we talk, we often flirt with each other and 'talk dirty' as well. We spoke about getting together to just have a bit of 'innocent fun' with each other. He said it would be like a 'passion thing' and not a 'love thing' with no attachments.
I crave being kissed, touched and getting intimate to the point of me seeking it out from my guy friends that I know will give it to me, but it feels so right to do something this wrong.
Should I go ahead with it?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
I dont think you should be with a guy that is 18 and your 16. Thats just wrong and way too young for you to be doing things with someone. Your a minor.
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