He Wants Sex with Another Woman
We often have visitors write in with solutions to each others' problems. Here is a visitor's solution to one of our visitor's questions.
Original Visitor's Question from a 41-50 year old Female
My friend was a virgin when we met. I got his virginity and he admitted to it. He said he felt at the time I was the worthy party and it felt right to make love with me.
Now we are engaged. I should tell you I'm 38 and he is 28 and we've known each other for 4 years. He has this issue of wanting to have sex with me and another female at the same time. I'm not into that stuff and I don't know how to handle it. What should I do?
User Submitted Advice from a 31-40 year old Male
Having a 3-some can be very enjoyable for all involved. However, every single party has to be into it. If you don't feel comfortable, it's better not to go through with it. This is something that can't be taken away. I would be honest with your fiance. I would not give him any false offer unless you think it's OK with you.
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