What do I do
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
I'm a 17 year old girl whom has been dating my current boyfriend for over a year now. He and I were getting along so wonderful at first, but now its just him picking a fight and expecting me not to say anything back.He cheated on me a few months ago and told so many lies to me and the girl. Me and the girl he cheated on me with , we are friends now.He kept telling her not to talk to me and me not to talk to her. He was caught up in all the lies . I stuck with him, because I love him, but why does he not see what he has in front of him and why does he want to continue damaging what realtionship we have left?
User Submitted Advice from a 21-30 year old Male
I think that you George, are extremely wrong! Does she love him? And I'm not talking about some little kid love, I'm talking about true love! If thats the case than true love can conquer ANYTHING! Take me for example, I am now 23 years old and dated the same woman for six years, she finally left me when I was 21. I cheated on her, lied to her, used her, verbally abused her. I was a complete jerk. I joined the Marine Corps and she left me for someone else while I was gone. Good on her! But you know what I realize now, I love her! And there is nothing I can do about it because it's too late. Fact is I will always love her and I regret everything I've ever done and would give my life to take it back, but I can't. So now I have to live with this for the rest of my life. If you truly love him, don't give up! I wish she would of just fought for me just a little bit longer. If he loves you and you just dump him, you could lose the one you love because you didn't try hard or long enough. Love is important, don't let it slip away!
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