i'm in love but the guy wouldnt show any reaction!!
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Original Visitor's Question from a 21-30 year old Female
hey every1...i'm really in love with this guy who happens 2 be my cousin...we're almost the same age n so v were really close...we used 2 chat,txt each other,tease each other n stuff...lately he started ignoring me for no reason he wouldn't talk,wouldn't reply 2 my txts,wouldn't thank 4 wishing on his birthday or wouldn't wish me on my BIRTHDAY!i at first got pissed n started ignoring him too but thn i realised i really am in love with him,i miss him terribly,think up some connection 2 him in every topic going on around,tried calling,txting jus everything but there's no answer....recently he forgot his cell at home,i waz jus searching for a number which i didn't find,but i also didn't find my own no. in it thn i started going thru the whole contact list n found my no. with some other name,my name joined 2gthr with his! what would i understand?i started observing him more n think he'z hiding his feelings for me...both of us are really shy n i couldnt be the first b'coz im still not sure whether he jus likes me or does he love me back or neither!But i truly truly love him n donno wht 2 do now i miss him he still doesn't txt or reply back...please help!thanx
User Submitted Advice from a unknown year old Female
thanx george but i tried talking to his sister,not about the actual situation,but about him ignoring n stuff so she asked him 2 reply 2 my text but he still didn't n tht's y i'm soo confused..
and about the cousin-dating n stuff,there's no problem with tht i gues coz his mother n the paternal family of his, likes me a lot and moreover one of our cousin got married 2 his 1st cousin =)
but before jumping to any conclusions i want to be sure if he likes me or not which i tried a hundred times..i even texted him asking wht the matter is y is he quiet n stuff but as usual no reply...his sister was like tke it lightly y do u wanna txt him whn he'z not reply but how can i tell her i can't bear something like tht it screw's me up...and plz tell me wht to talk 2 him face-2-face?
i at first thought it's jus a crush and used 2 call him bro but later i cudn't stand calling the love of my life as a 'brother' n taking the less age gap between us as an excuse,started calling him by his nickname but thn once or twice felt scared tht he might find out tht i don't jus regard him as a bro n stuff n called him bro again but there used 2 be a silence from his side whnever i called him so...wht do i get from all of this???he wouldn't evn tell me he likes me or not n doesn't evn behave like before!!!v really used 2 be close lyk i used 2 borrow funds from him for bunking college n he met my frndz tht way too n he used 2 get a lil possesive if i had any guy frndz around n stuff
so plz tell me wht 2 do now! thnx again!(the questioner)
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