Conflict Between Me and Another Girl
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Original Visitor's Question from a 13-20 year old Female
Okay, right now I'm crushing on a guy in my class. He generally is the class clown who can make just about anyone laugh and often flirts with different girls just to see how they'd react. I catch him flirting with me a couple of times, a little bit more than he does with my other girl-classmates.
But a rumor is spreading that he has a serious crush on a younger girl one grade below us, whom people keep on saying has a crush on him, too. He says he just might go for the girl he's crushing on (and he never confirms nor deny the spreading rumor on the underclassman girl).
He tells me things he tells nobody else, and consults me a lot on different things, and in return, I consult him as well. I tried fishing out an answer out of him by saying I used to have a crush on him but got over it, and he shrugged it off by saying "Oh. Okay."
It makes me think that I'm more of his best friend than a girl he's crushing on.
Is he still worth fighting for?
User Submitted Advice from a 13-20 year old Female
he probally thinks of you as a really close friend. and hey, it's just a rumor, anything can be said! and if he has not confirmed the rumor to be true, so what? maybe he is just playing around to see how other girls will react! even though i think you too are just close friends, give it some time, dont rush, just wait and see what happens! who knows? maybe if you get to know eachother a little more, he will see what a great girl you really are and he will fall for you!!!!!!!! :)
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